Time for a reality check, my darling: you were not the problem. Any ideas why? We rarely talk anymore and I know she is with him. You're still in love with her and are simply hurt by everything, this latest break up is just the icing on the cake. We broke it off about 6 months ago mainly because of her cheating on me and my "overly emotional" response to the cheating.
We don't want to be friends, we want them back and we feel that at least being friends means we'll be with them and maybe can make things work. Look for a role model. If she were to come back again, and you really would like it to work still (I think we know the answer to that one) then you need to be strong and sort everything out. Before you say „you shouldnt care about it” sure but I know where im at. Maybe that's the problem. wow, thank you for that. Depression Symptoms – Can Depression Lead to Suicide? Each time we broke up things got more and more difficult, about a year ago she dated one of my friends behind my back, I found out about it and was crushed and we have never been the same since then. What else is there to know?
What you want is what most of us think we want after a break-up; and that's to be friends with the ex.
Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. No one knows what will happen next with all this, but hopefully you can see the situation from another perspective and next time (if there is a next time) you can deal with it better.
I guess that is probably bs huh? Broke up with my ex 4 weeks ago.the dude she cheated on me with is pretty active on social media, but since the breakup.
She is kind of a person that posts every single thing she does on her stories but actually never posts anything with this guy.
Taking someone back after they've left so many times in my opinion sends out the message "I'm okay with you leaving just as long as you come back to me". I truly believe she is being taught to be just like my ex wife through learned and observed behavior, and by “being made a victim” herself.
I believed her initially until the distant got more apparrent. Hopefully you dont get the same shitty treatment as me, but try your best to do No Contact and avoid those social media crap. I know people in similar situations - they keep taking their partners back yet acting suprised when they cheat again and again.
If she wants you, then she'll make every effort to change her ways and prove herself to you. Often time we find we are actually the ones that were a rebound. She dumped me at the start of october and i went nc week later.
Sign up for a new account in our community. Should she make more effort to speak to you, then that's when you lay down the law and say exactly what you want, how hurt you've been, how you don't trust her and how you don't think you ever will again.
All Rights Reserved. You need to be a member in order to leave a comment. About 3 months ago it all changed. Either way for now, go NC and read some other threads on here.
b) she expressed that she was going through a lot of stuff, was depressed and was unfaithful because of it. Respect comes not just from being nice to someone but also being firm and honest with them.
Why is my ex hiding her new relationship from me? You clearly know she's with someone else and has no intention of ever being loyal and honest with you, so why look for anymore closure than that? Everything which you see is not like that there is always something which is untold or unnoticed. I asked her why this way and she just said she was busy with work. Copyright © 1997-2020 LoveShack.org. Loyalty is my best and worst quality, if I love someone I try to understand their point of view and why they do what they do. I expressed this to her and still she keeps lying to me. Seriously, what more could you want from her now? I asked her if we are just friends why wasnt I allowed to know about him? Humans learn not only from their own experiences but from other people too.
By Thank you for the honest reply and great advice. And who cares whether someone else would consider the other person a winner. Even though I forgave her we didn't get back together, just slept together a few times and continued to hang out and talk every day.
Trust me, it never works.
That is the time when you need to be strongest. Think about that and really think about what you really want. We broke up a few times over the course of her relationship mainly because of her cheating on me. You really think you can sit with her whilst she tells you what a great lover her new guy is, or (as in my case) tells you about her engagement? I asked her again, and again she denied. my ex and I dated for 3 years. So my ex is hiding her new relationship. She has a boyfriend but she hides him from me.
My Ex-girlfriend is trying to hide her new rebound relationship My Ex girlfriend of about 5 months is trying to hide her new rebound relationship by posting pics of him on Snapchat but always cutting out his face, and making it seem like she’s happy with this new guy. Her actions have made it clear the type of person she is, so do you really want to be her friend?
That stuff is going to delay the hell out of your healing. How long did you guys date? I decided to believe her until the cold distance again got worse and numerous other people confirmed that they were indeed together.
Why Is My Ex Hiding Her New Relationship From Me She might try to hide her emotions but deep down the seed of jealousy takes root. Other option being a rebound, but if thats the case i dont see the reason as to why she would neex to hide it. I personally am betting that if you stop responding she'll come to you, not to take you back, but because you'll be hurting her ego and doing something she's not used to. A year. And its not like she doesnt want to show off because okay you dont have to throw him at everyones face but she actually hidden the picture on her profile which is really curious (and kinda feel sorry for that guy). Currently over 3 months no contact and have no intention of getting back together, also seeing new girl. We have had countless of arguments about it and It's gotten to the point where I need to know so I can have some closure and move on.
Copyright © 1997-2020 LoveShack.org. If she doesn't, she won't. Goodluck man. It's easy! All Rights Reserved. She dumped me at the start of october and i went nc week later. Our entire relationship was up and down the entire time, very intense, but very loving regardless of the problems. The fact is she can't really love or respect you anymore, no after the amount of times she's left and you've taken her back - even when you turned your back on your friend but not her! Nothing, no replies to her texts or any of that. Now, after publishing her side of the story, the internet has her back.
Found out about 2 weeks ago she is in a new relationship from mutual friend but the thing that bothers me is that she pretty much hides it. Its pretty much a confirmed rebound by seeing the signs but makes me wonder why would she do that? It's a lie. You really think you can be her friend? A Vegan Diet Is Not Only About Giving Up On Meat, It’s More Than That!
I know full well how difficult it can be to sort these things when an ex comes back as you can so easily get swept up in the joy of being around them, but try to remain focused.